You love each other but things are not easy right now.
You’re unsatisfied with your sexual life and find yourself wondering “Is this normal?” or “Am I broken?” This issue is causing problems in your relationship or even preventing you from being in a relationship.
You are curious about aspects of your sexuality that feel too personal or too private to talk about with friends.
You have gotten to the point where you feel like you need the help of a trained professional.
You may feel…
- Frustrated that this aspect of your life is complicated
- Pressure from your partner to figure out why this is happening
- You want to want sex but you don’t feel desire
- Wishing your body was cooperating in the way you wished it would
- Embarassed or ashamed about your sexuality
- Hopeless that you can have a healthy sex life
It doesn’t have to stay like this.
It can be so discouraging when you feel out of touch with your body and your sexuality. Whether this has been a lifelong pattern or something new that showed up recently, I can help you figure out what is happening so you can have the sex life you have always wanted.
Sex Therapy in Santa Barbara and Westlkae Village, California for:
Let’s get back to the joy!
Sex therapy involves talking about sex in the context of the rest of your life. This involves looking at the bigger picture to see what may really be happening under the surface.
I help you get to the bottom of what is really going on and then get back to a truly enjoyable sex life—defined on your own terms!
You’re ready to…
- Look at the areas of your life and your past that may be affecting what is going on now
- Try new things to reconnect to yourself or your partner
- Consider the messages and education you received about sex growing up
- Challenge some of the past ideas that you had about sex
- See yourself and your sexuality in a new way
- Form a different relationship with your body and how it works
- Genuinely look forward to having sex from a place of excitement instead of fear
- Learn to love yourself as you are
I can help.
I have worked with many people experiencing the issues you are facing and have helped them recover.
I am passionate about holistic sexual wellness, I am an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and am earning my Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology.
You have recognized that it is time to talk to an expert. Take that step towards your own healing today.